They say that beauty is only skin deep. If that’s the case there is some nice skin out there, lol!!! But this a serious issue for those who struggle with appearance issues on all sides. Now I’m going to use some terms like ugly, pretty, cute, fine, beautiful and so forth. I do not mean to offend anyone who may classify themselves as such and struggle with it.
First, let’s tackle this one. Why do men look at women? Most men, regardless if they are happily married – and if they are totally honest, would admit that their eyes have gazed at a beautiful, shapely woman and have thought “something”. Now I’m not going to define what that something is or may have been, but it was something. Even if it was an innocent thought of “she beautiful” without any sexual, disrespectful or bad intent behind it. I once heard someone say that it is within ALL males (human and animal) to conquer and mate with the female…even if it is his own wife. In my profession, I see women of all types and from all parts of the world. I’ve seen a few that have stopped me in my tracks and sent my hormones into overdrive. No, I didn’t have thoughts of throwing them down right there and having sex…not at all! But it was a feeling of….wow! and astonishment at how you can get this feeling inside simply because of how someone looks. I remember way back in the day a buddy of mine and I went over to a friend’s house. She had a friend who lived upstairs and it just so happened that she came over. When she walked into the door, my immaturity and lack of any type of composure caused me to literally drop down on the floor. I didn’t know what to say or do, so I think I got up and walked out. Now I must admit that this was also during a time when I was young, had friends and living the wild life. Anyway, I was so caught up with how gorgeous this girl was that I purposefully disrespected her. I wrote one of those stupid sexual letters and gave it to my friend and asked her to pass it along to her. Needless to say, the letter didn’t do me any good but we did end up going to Disneyland…quite a few times, and man were the rides awesome!
Over the years I’ve gone through a few things that I have been attracted to in women. They tend to change and may even seen silly. At one point I found myself attracted to women who had braces…Yeah, I know, go figure. For some reason, and until this day I just don’t know why, but it’s true. In fact, I met this Puerto Rican chick who worked at one of the kiosks in the mall. Not only was she just plain fine, but she had braces. Not big ole, metal mouth braces but some that just made her smile stand out. I would go to the mall just to walk by her Kiosk and see her. She had a body was 10, long reddish-brown, curly hair and the smoothest skin complexion. Oh yeah, we went to Disneyland too! One thing that I am still attracted to today is women that tend to stand back on their legs and they bow out a little. I don’t know what it is about it but that is so sexy to me. My wife does it and it turns me on so much. However, it doesn’t mean anything to her. As a man I guess I can say I’ve had my obsession with breasts too. At one point I loved small ones and medium one. My wife has rather large breasts and I love them too. Either way, big or small I’m more attracted to perky nipples. And, this is not a porn post so I’ll leave it at that :).
Although I don’t like to see a woman in a thong, it does turn me on. In fact, that is the very reason I don’t like to see it. I can honesty say I don’t like how it makes me feel. It makes me feel baited and lured in by the perception of a sensuous woman who is dangling the coochie right in front of me. Yeah, I know it’s crazy but it does. Even though she doesn’t know me from Adam, and can care less…it makes me think stupid thoughts and so I don’t like it…I really don’t. Call me crazy, but at one point I was attracted to what I couldn’t see. A woman could be fully clothed but with the type of clothing that accentuate her body just the right way and I would take notice. As a black man, of course I love a nice butt. What is it about a perfectly shaped butt that drives men crazy…I just don’t know.
I’ve never like the smell of strong perfumes. I’m more into soft subtle scents and even more captivated by a fresh clean scent. I love it when my wife gets out of the shower and puts nothing on but an over-sized shirt…no panties and no bra….now that is sexy to me! I love to feel my wife’s body. I love to hold her and feel her curves, her breasts rub up against me. I bury my face into the side of her neck and take a deep breath, Man! We’ve gone our rounds about stuff like that though. Anyway…
But there’s always something that is attractive to someone else. Regardless if you short, tall, fat or skinny, beautiful or ugly. There is something about you that is appealing to the opposite sex. Some dark-skinned women wish they were lighter, and lighter wish they were darker. Some skinny women (believe it or not) wish they were thicker and some fat women want to be thinner. In the end, I guess it’s all superficial because when it comes down to it, it doesn’t matter how tall, short, fat skinny, ugly, beautiful, cute, fine, gorgeous, sexy…doesn’t matter how good you smell, smile, walk or talk….it doesn’t matter if you have small, big or medium breasts with perfect nipples….if you’re naggy your man wants to tell you to “shut the hell up” and get as far away from you as he can….lol!!!!!